Sunday, November 29, 2009
Tropical Island Thankgiving
I’ve been feeling a bit down about missing out on all the family holiday gatherings that are coming but our Okinawa family really came through for us this past Thanksgiving weekend. It was fantastic!!! Back in August we all got together and reserved cottages at small resort on a base up north. We’ve been there a few times but never along with anyone else. It was the perfect set up- 7 families, Hayden was the oldest of the 20 kids. All the cottages in a small fenced in area on one little road surrounding a playground and within walking distance to the beach. The kids were everywhere, riding bikes, rollerblading, digging in the sand, swinging and just enjoying the lack of supervision while the adults relaxed and hung out!
We started Thanksgiving off right with a football game that was a blast (thank you to the pregnant moms who watched the kids so the rest of us could play!) Then we gathered for appetizers for lunch, got some food prepped, put the Turkey in the oven and headed to the beach! The waves were great and the sand plentiful! Then we cleaned up and met for dinner. We had enough food to feed us all for three meals, three fantastically delicious meals! I don’t make anything that requires more than three ingredients but my friends are fantastic cooks and I totally benefitted! My mashed potatoes and rainbow jello turned out fine and I did contribute a stellar apple pie and pumpkin pie. Yum!
After dinner the kids had a scavenger hunt, a p.j. movie party and it was off to bed so the adults could stay up way to late playing games. Every night we would put the kids to bed, lock the doors and meet for pie and games at one of the cottages while monitoring the kids with baby monitors, walkie talkies, and cordless phones...it was awesome. (There is a perk to being on an isolated little military base- totally safe!) By the time we left on Saturday I was exhausted but so happy, I just kept smiling on the drive home thinking about how thankful I am to be here with so many wonderful people. Who would have thought that this far from “home” I could have so many amazing friends. We truly have become like family, the kids play like cousins and adults just enjoy our time together and everyone has unique and special things they bring to the group. This Thanksgiving, while so far from the rest of my family and things that are familiar there is no question I was the most thankful for friends...and the blue water and perfect weather helped...on the drive home I noticed that instead of passing trees full of fall leaves changing colors I was passing trees full of bright orange flowers. There were hundreds of them and they were gorgeous...ah yes, it might be far from “home” but for now it is home.
On a related note, Hayden did a little Thanksgiving play in his class at school and he was one of the two narrators and did a fantastic job! He's on the far left, reading one of his parts.
Saturday, November 7, 2009
Life besides running...
There hasn't been much running lately. Tom came down with a sinus infection and ended up really sick most of the week. I felt sick to my stomach clear through last Wednesday but then finally hit the pavement on Thursday only to find both knees sore and tired. Oh well, it was nice a cool and felt great to be outside!
Okay, so what else have we been up to lately? Here’s a few highlights:
Hayden has his first loose tooth and is very excited! His school did a science fair and said that any grade could enter so he decided to do a project. I helped him pick something based on some homework he had enjoyed that involved doing surveys and making charts. He did a great job and learned a lot. Turns out he won first place for the 1st grade! Kudos Hayden!
Tom and I went to the Marine Corp Dental Ball last night. We hadn’t planned on going but the pressure came on and at the last minute Tom bought tickets. I didn’t have anything to wear, I borrowed something last year, and shopping is really tricky with the limited options here, not to mention if you want something that isn’t sleeveless! Finally, after much searching, two days before the ball I miraculously found a dress at an obscure little store off base. Of course it was sleeveless and I couldn’t find anything go with it so I came up with the crazy plan to make something myself, in one day. I went to the Japanese fabric store, found matching black satin and then found an idea online for a little “bolero shrug.” I managed to make it and was actually surprised with the results. Now I know I have an option when my girls hit prom age! I know I look so comfortable taking these pictures...but I wanted to show off the dress because it was such a miracle I found one here, I'll work on my "modeling" skills next year!
Alyssa is really beginning to do well at gymnastics and is enjoying it a lot. She’s learning a lot of great physical skills plus the idea of following directions and taking turns. Danica is a natural and has been asked to join an “advanced preschool” gymnastics class. I’m really proud of her and excited.
Danica and Alyssa are the best of friends and it’s fantastic. They play together all day and love it. Hayden had the day off school Friday so we went to this great in door playground for the first time. Everyone had a blast and it was so fun watching the girls do everything together!! They are more like twins all the time. Danica’s shoe size is only one bigger than Alyssa’s and they can wear the same shirts!
Due to Veteran's day there is no school or work on Tuesday, Wed, and Thurs of this week so we are looking at going camping or something fun. The weather has cooled down a bit and you won't have to put up with me whining about it anymore. It should be gorgeous from here on through March, it almost makes up for how bad it was...almost!
The primary program is next Sunday and I am so excited to be done with it because I am the chorister and have tried so hard all year to teach the kids the songs. I can't wait to just do whatever we want and sing some fun Christmas stuff. The stress of leading the music during sacrament meeting has me nervous already...oh well, we have enough wild kids that I am sure no one pay attention to anything else!
That's all for today, have a great day!
Okay, so what else have we been up to lately? Here’s a few highlights:
Hayden has his first loose tooth and is very excited! His school did a science fair and said that any grade could enter so he decided to do a project. I helped him pick something based on some homework he had enjoyed that involved doing surveys and making charts. He did a great job and learned a lot. Turns out he won first place for the 1st grade! Kudos Hayden!
Tom and I went to the Marine Corp Dental Ball last night. We hadn’t planned on going but the pressure came on and at the last minute Tom bought tickets. I didn’t have anything to wear, I borrowed something last year, and shopping is really tricky with the limited options here, not to mention if you want something that isn’t sleeveless! Finally, after much searching, two days before the ball I miraculously found a dress at an obscure little store off base. Of course it was sleeveless and I couldn’t find anything go with it so I came up with the crazy plan to make something myself, in one day. I went to the Japanese fabric store, found matching black satin and then found an idea online for a little “bolero shrug.” I managed to make it and was actually surprised with the results. Now I know I have an option when my girls hit prom age! I know I look so comfortable taking these pictures...but I wanted to show off the dress because it was such a miracle I found one here, I'll work on my "modeling" skills next year!
Alyssa is really beginning to do well at gymnastics and is enjoying it a lot. She’s learning a lot of great physical skills plus the idea of following directions and taking turns. Danica is a natural and has been asked to join an “advanced preschool” gymnastics class. I’m really proud of her and excited.
Danica and Alyssa are the best of friends and it’s fantastic. They play together all day and love it. Hayden had the day off school Friday so we went to this great in door playground for the first time. Everyone had a blast and it was so fun watching the girls do everything together!! They are more like twins all the time. Danica’s shoe size is only one bigger than Alyssa’s and they can wear the same shirts!
Due to Veteran's day there is no school or work on Tuesday, Wed, and Thurs of this week so we are looking at going camping or something fun. The weather has cooled down a bit and you won't have to put up with me whining about it anymore. It should be gorgeous from here on through March, it almost makes up for how bad it was...almost!
The primary program is next Sunday and I am so excited to be done with it because I am the chorister and have tried so hard all year to teach the kids the songs. I can't wait to just do whatever we want and sing some fun Christmas stuff. The stress of leading the music during sacrament meeting has me nervous already...oh well, we have enough wild kids that I am sure no one pay attention to anything else!
That's all for today, have a great day!
Sunday, November 1, 2009
Why did I get sick during the marathon?
Okay, so you're probably sick of hearing about our marathon now, but I found this article and thought it was interesting. Of course my parents were dismayed when they heard about my experience and couldn't believe I didn't just stop running. They were genuinely worried about me. I have been wondering if I was insane and really not smart and would I have stopped had we been around anyone who spoke English so I could have figured out another way back to the finish line besides simply running there...now I am not trying to compare myself to Kara Goucher, but it was nice to know I wasn't alone in this. Apparently, Kara Goucher, an up and coming great runner who ran the NYC marathon in 2:25 last year, also has a problem with throwing up when she is running...she also said it's hard to finish in the time you want because you are so drained and can't keep anything down to replenish.
However, she was probably sick from running so fast.... I have come to realize I was sick from the boat ride. I talked to my dad (from whom I inherited most of my less than ideal qualities like bad teeth, ugly toes, and motion sickness) and he said that when he gets seasick he is then sick for days!!! So, the fact that I was no longer on the boat didn't matter. What I took to be pre-race jitters was still the nausea from being seasick and it lasted for 4 days after the race causing me to even take a pregnancy test when I found myself up at 3:00am eating crackers to calm my stomach enough to go back to sleep! I think I"ll stay away from stormy boat rides in the future!! Hayden wants to go whale watching... I think I'll send Tom with him!
However, she was probably sick from running so fast.... I have come to realize I was sick from the boat ride. I talked to my dad (from whom I inherited most of my less than ideal qualities like bad teeth, ugly toes, and motion sickness) and he said that when he gets seasick he is then sick for days!!! So, the fact that I was no longer on the boat didn't matter. What I took to be pre-race jitters was still the nausea from being seasick and it lasted for 4 days after the race causing me to even take a pregnancy test when I found myself up at 3:00am eating crackers to calm my stomach enough to go back to sleep! I think I"ll stay away from stormy boat rides in the future!! Hayden wants to go whale watching... I think I'll send Tom with him!
Marathon-short report
It has come to my attention that a sweet and simple account of the marathon may be all that is wanted by most readers, and my long and gory details are too much. So here it is, you can skip the full account if this is enough info for you. If you've already read the full account, just blur out the other details and remember that this is take home message:
Hooray!!! We finished our first marathon! It was awesome, a beautiful course with awesome ocean views and mountain scenery. The weather was perfect, not too hot and just misty rain here and there. At one point we were going up some steep hills along the coast and the breeze was at our back pushing us up, it was great! Much to my surprise, and pleasure, my knee didn't hurt at all and we felt well trained and ready. It was long, and hard and around mile 18 we found ourselves wondering why anybody ever wants to do it again but we kept at it. We finished close to our goal and are so happy to be done!!!
During our training we ran together for our long runs every week and have decided to keep doing that just for fun. We've looked into a few half marathons on other surrounding island and found a few in February and March- should be fun!
Hooray!!! We finished our first marathon! It was awesome, a beautiful course with awesome ocean views and mountain scenery. The weather was perfect, not too hot and just misty rain here and there. At one point we were going up some steep hills along the coast and the breeze was at our back pushing us up, it was great! Much to my surprise, and pleasure, my knee didn't hurt at all and we felt well trained and ready. It was long, and hard and around mile 18 we found ourselves wondering why anybody ever wants to do it again but we kept at it. We finished close to our goal and are so happy to be done!!!
During our training we ran together for our long runs every week and have decided to keep doing that just for fun. We've looked into a few half marathons on other surrounding island and found a few in February and March- should be fun!
Iheya Island Moonlight Marathon 2009
We can now officially claim that we have run a marathon! We had some major set backs but overall it was awesome and the island was beautiful and we are glad we did it. We’re also glad it’s done! For my journalling sake I’ll start at the beginning and tell you about our first marathon experience. I know this is more detail than you want but here it is:
In order to find a marathon on a Saturday we had to pick one that was on Halloween. Kind of a bummer to miss out on being with the kids but they were good sports about it and we have amazing friends who pitched in to help out with them. So on Satuday, Oct. 31st we woke up at 5:00am, showered, dressed and got the kids ready and dropped them off at various friends houses to spend the day and night. We picked up the other two guys running with us and headed up the island to the northern most port. Fortunately, we found it okay (all the signs are in Japanese when you get real rural) and we got the tickets we needed (it’s always stressful when you can’t read any of the signs and you just have to hope that when the only thing you can read on the ticket are the numbers 9:00 it means you have the tickets for the 9:00 boat...) Luckily we did, we boarded the boat and set off on our journey! It was pretty windy and rainy and before long the boat was rocking like crazy and I was really sea sick. I curled up in my chair with head between my knees and just prayed that I wouldn’t throw up...I didn’t, and 1 1/2 hours later we made it to Iheya Island.
Iheya Island (pronounced Eehaya) has only 1500 people living on it. There were an extra 1700 coming for the race. It is very rural and very pretty. We came into the port there and after some confusion we found someone who spoke english and they directed us to the gym where we planned to sleep and to the race check in station. We paid for our spot on the gym floor and laid out our sleeping bags. It was wall to wall people by the time everyone arrived. We checked in, admired our race shirts and found our names in the booklet. They are the only names written in english!
Then we sat down for the lunch we packed. I was still a touch queasy from the boat and getting nervous so lunch didn’t sit quite right but I figured that was normal and we did our best. We had a few hours to kill so I took short nap on our floor, Tom wandered around checking things out and then we prepped for the race. Packed our bags, debated about whether to wear sunglasses or hats, etc. Then we went out to stretch, feeling excited and happy. Most of the other racers participated in this big group stretching exercise, you can see them behind us in the picture. Tom took some sports beans and offered me some but the marathon bar we had eaten an hour before (like we did on our practice runs) was still sitting in my stomach so I declined not thinking much of it. Then it was finally time!
As we lined up it started to rain and we just laughed because it had been hot and sunny a few minutes before. But the rain didn’t last long and soon the starting gun went off! We raced down the road full of excitement! First we went down a long country road and then turned and went through a mountain with big trees, gorgeous, and opened onto the coast and ran along the beach before heading inland again and up and around another mountain. We felt great and were enjoying ourselves. I was in 2nd place for the women and so excited. One of our friend's wives came and she took pictures for us. She caught us at about the mile 5 water stop.
I was delighted because my knee felt good, I had a band wrapped around it that was working because we were already 10 miles into the run and still felt great! My stomach still hurt but I commented to Tom that at least I could run with a stomach ache, unlike knee pain! We ascended a pretty steep hill and got some water at the top. Shortly after the mile 12 water stop my stomach clamped up and I realized I was going throw up. My stomach had been hurting for so long I kind of welcomed the idea thinking maybe then I would feel better. Fortunately, the runners were all spread out and it was just green forest on all sides of us so I ducked into the trees and threw up. Feeling slightly better I caught up to Tom and we kept going.
We managed to keep our pace for the next few miles and then stopped at another water station. I grabbed water and an orange and within seconds of consuming it I was on the ground again throwing it up. I was discouraged but we’d already come 15 miles and the rest of my body was feeling great. We were running on a mountain side along the coast, it was a beautiful view and the wind was pushing against our backs helping us up the hills. Tom was fantastic and so supportive and just kept telling me I could do it and I tried to remain positive. We were still on pace to finish in under 4 hours so we kept going. I tried taking some Power Gels and water and just threw it all up before I could even get past the place where you were supposed to throw your empty cups. Tom continued to be amazing and would walk with me when I needed to clear my head and then let me set pace as I got grounded enough to run some more. I will spare you the details about the bathroom stops but they were interesting since there we NO bathrooms the entire 26 miles and you know what happens when you are sick to your stomach...thank goodness for rural terrain and no other runners nearby us! It's a good thing I couldn't read this sign because I just discovered it says "Beware of Habu" and was all along the race course...I guess I was lucky I didn't see any when I jumped off the road...
You might think I was crazy at this point, and I was, I was delirious thinking two things: I had worked so hard to get here with the training, babysitters, travel, etc. that I wasn’t going home a failure. And the second thought: There is no way I am walking all the way to the finish line, that would take forever and just prolong the agony, I just wanted to go home and lie down! Running was the fastest way to get there! So on we ran...here is one of the views we saw (we didn't take this picture but had seen it online and were excited when we saw it on the course!)
At one point we got to a turn around where the people doing the half marathon turned around and headed back but the marathoners had to go across a bridge and run around another little island. This was right at mile 20. I was getting really drained by this point and trying to ignore the voice in my head telling me I had nothing in my stomach and the thought of going around the island was overwhelming. Tom was great and convinced me I could do it and that it was just like part of our training course and would be easy. I believed him and off we went, across the bridge and around the island. By this point it was getting pretty dark. It was a lot of uphill and we were starting to die waiting for the sign to say turn around and go back the other way... I was wondering if it would ever come! Up, up, up, we went and finally we made it to the turn around and headed down. We ran threw another water stop and I got some water and instantly threw it up. We started crossing the bridge again to go back and started to throw up again. At this point I realized that I was so light headed and dizzy I couldn’t keep running. I also knew that if Tom went ahead he could finish the last 4 miles and get under 4:10 (the new goal we had set when I started to get sick.) It took some coaxing because he wanted to finish together, we were a team and had trained together, but I wanted him to go to prove to ourselves that we could do it and that if I hadn’t gotten sick we would have been able to meet our goal. So I said I love you and sent him on his way. Within minutes I was throwing up off the side of the bridge. Here is a map of the island, you can see the narrow bridge leading to the smaller island.
Tom was fantastic and despite the set back of having to walk with me so much, and waiting for me on my many road side stops he was able to muster up the strength to go strong and steady for the last 4 miles. He just pushed ahead and made it back to the finish line in 4:09!!!! I am positive that had he not waited for me he would have finished in under 4 hours! I am soooooo glad he did wait for me though because I wouldn’t have had the strength or encouragement I needed to keep going and I can’t imagine trying to do it all alone when I felt so rotten. I wouldn’t have made it without him. He got me close enough to the end that I knew I could do it from there. He was amazing.
In reality, my last fours miles were miserable but I tried to enjoy myself. I knew I was close enough that I could feasibly walk all the way back if I had to. I was sooooooooooooo thirsty that I couldn’t pass up the water stops, that were now more frequent, even though I knew I couldn’t keep the water down. I made a system of taking two waters at each stop. Getting a few yards away, drinking the first water which I would instantly throw up. I’d stumble a few more feet, throw up again and then begin to walk. I’d sip the other water for a while as I went down the road. Then I’d get to another water stop and do it all over again. This happened about 6 times in the last few miles. I jogged a bit here and there just to try to get done sooner but I was so light headed and dizzy that I couldn’t keep it up long. I didn't want to pass out and hit my head or something crazy, I knew it wasn't worth that. I literally had NOTHING left in my body to rely on for energy stores. Looking back it’s all a bit ridiculous but I just wanted to finish. I figured I would just do what I had to in order to get it done. I figured I could finish miserable or I could just finish so I made a point of trying to enjoy myself. It was really dark by this point but I could see the waves crashing in the moonlight and it was really pretty. They had one long stretch all lit with little blue lights on the side of the road, it was a real magical feel. At this point I had matched up with the half marathon runners, many of whom were actually walking, so I had the camaraderie of it feeling like a race again. It was a slow, long last few miles but wasn’t terrible (ignoring the throwing up part which was now just part of my routine.) It started pouring rain and I just laughed and put on my sun glasses wishing I had worn my hat instead since the glasses didn’t help and it was totally dark outside! Here is a daylight picture of the stretch of the last few miles. You can imagine how it would look under the moonlight.
As I neared the finish line I could see Tom and he got me motivated to run again and was able to run along the sideline as I crossed the finish line. I finished in 4:40, not my goal but all things considered I am pretty proud of it. I love this shot because if you look on the side line you can see Tom in this picture! I am trying not be discouraged that we didn't get to finish together and didn't get the time we wanted. I just keep reminding myself that running a marathon is pretty hard, and running a marathon with something like the stomach flu is pretty amazing. I know we were trained well enough and my mind, body and muscles were able to carry me through it despite the huge set back. I don’t know what caused the stomach ache. I continued to feel sick through out the night and the next day and am still nauseas today. However, I would expect to feel that way after the ordeal I went through. I would say that running the marathon caused the throwing up but my stomach was hurting before we started and I am positive I can run 12 miles without needing to throw up so that’s not it. It could have been from being seasick and then nervous from the race...things got stirred up in my gut, I don’t know. One of my friends and her kids spent the weekend battling the stomach flu so maybe I had it as well. But it’s over, we did it and finished!
After the race I just laid down on the wet grass and Tom took great care of me. He got me a bowl of soba (japanese noodles) and some water. I managed to choke some down and then didn’t move until I was sure it was staying there. It was about 8:00 at night, the race started at 3. We went back into the gym, changed our clothes and I crashed on my sleeping bag. My stomach was still aching but I was starving and spent the rest of the night trying to sleep and eat and deal with the pain. The other runners were enjoying a party with a huge band, dancers, etc. Things didn’t get quiet until about 2am and even then the people “sleeping” next to us weren’t sleeping and stayed up most of the night talking and playing games. Pretty long, miserable night to say the least. Here we are sleeping after the marathon...
We caught the first ferry out the next morning and made it home safe and sound. Shortly there after the kids returned from church, with reports of great trick or treating and tons of fun. Our friends were awesome and it seems the kids did really well and had a great time. What a blessing that was. We had lunch, made everyone take a nap and then spent most of the day laying around on the couch.
So there you have it... our first marathon experience. I wish so much that I hadn’t gotten sick and it could have just been a nice positive experience. But what can you do? At least I have a horribly gross story to tell... thank goodness it was raining to clean up the mess...So, we made the most of it and all around it was still great. Tom is an amazing athlete who truly saved the whole experience and I know I gave it my all and pulled through at the end. In my book, we won! Here are our certificates of completion! We also got a medal!
P.S. If you think we look funny in our big headbands I dare you to try running in this kind of humidity without the sweat running in your eyes! That was the best thing about running in Utah this summer, I would go to wipe the sweat from my forehead and didn't end up soaked!
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