2009 Comes to a close....

So here is the last of what we did in 2009.

December 23rd was a long awaited day for Hayden- his 7th birthday!!! I was crazy enough to say he could have a party again and he chose Legos as his theme. I thought this was such a unique idea but quickly learned it’s really popular, oh well, it was still fun. The highlight of the party was giving each boy a chance to create his own mini-fig and then name him and design a house. I bought a ton of mini-figures on ebay and then we dismantled them. The boys rolled a dice and the numbers cooresponded to bowls of parts, for example, heads were in bowl 1, bodies bowl 2, hats bowl 4 and so on. It was a lot of fun. We played other lego games and simply played with legos and on the trampoline. Everyone had a great time. Hayden wanted an icecream cake... it was fine but I know for the future not to try to decorate an icecream cake. Even shaping it like a green lego was almost too much!

December 24th we decided to venture out in town for some Japanese Christmas Eve excitement and that is what we found! We bought tickets to a Christmas Snow festival at the zoo. It cost about $40 just to get in and that was with getting discount tickets for the kids. So it was a bit pricey but they promised igloos, sledding and a lazer show so it sounded worth it. It wasn’t. But alas, we still managed to have a good time and the kids really did the love the snow even though it was a very small amount of wet slush! Alyssa kept running around yelling "ice ice!" one of her favorite things (that I can get for free from the freezer.) The sledding incline (you can’t call it a hill because it was the equivalent of sliding off the kitchen table down the front yard) cost an extra 500 yen per ride! That’s nearly $6 a ride, it was ridiculous and we didn't do it! We watched the show which started with some sort of entertainer/magician, he was funny and did enough physical action that the fact that we couldn’t understand his japanese didn’t matter much. Then they had some dancing girls which was some fun hip hop. Sorta Christmassy at times... but we found ourselves staring with our jaws hanging open when the girls were dancing and the music went sinister and a man in a mask with a machine gun came on stage with loud laughing, gunned down all the girls who fell dead on the stage and then turned the gun on us. Seconds earlier the kids were dancing along to the hip hop and suddenly I felt the need to cover their eyes. The other adults we were with just kept staring at each other wondering if we had seen it right. A few moments later the music changed to something angelic and the girls on stage got up slowly and acted like angels (I think that is what happened but everything was spoken in Japanese so I’m not sure.) Needless to say, it was so shocking we just had to laugh. The “highlight” of the night was the Snow Show. Just as we were trying to leave they drove over the snow making machine and turned the hose up into the air so it began to snow on us. It should have been fun and magical but it was so warm and the machine wasn’t working right so we were actually being pelted with mushy slush balls. We were blocked in by people on all sides and couldn’t move. The girls were screaming in the stroller and we were grabbing our jackets and trying to take cover. Again, just laughing our heads off. The stroller was soaked with muddy slush, and so were we... Hayden loved it and wanted to follow the truck for more. 
When the truck started throwing huge discs of slush they turned it off...hopefully it worked better the next night. We wandered around looking at Christmas lights and avoiding the over priced carnival games. Luckily, the kids don’t ask us to buy them food since they don’t recognize anything! At the end we watched a lazer show, all set to Michael Jackson music...apparently, he invokes feelings of Christmas here... we went home and did our normal things of reading the bible, acting out the nativity, and opening gifts from each other. What a night... I think we’ll just skip it next year!


Christmas Day was fantastic. Tons of fun and way too many gifts for everyone! The kids are so spoiled by their relatives, they were in heaven. I love the looks of delight in their faces on so many of the pictures. You can see Alyssa saying “wow!” Hayden scored with Lego sets and was so happy. It rained ALL day, we got the girls a little playhouse for the backyard and they didn't even know it until the next day when it stopped raining! That night we had our good friends the Wilsons over for dinner, they did half the food. We invited several single marines to eat with us and enjoy the evening, we all had a great time.



When Christmas was over I decided it was great but all WAY to much to do and like I always say, I must simplify it next year... this year I’m really serious.

New Years Eve started off with a bang- I went on my first ever bike ride with the gang here. Tom wanted to go and wanted me to join him so he convinced me I could do it. It was supposed to go from 7 to 10:00...we got back at 12:00. I borrowed a bike and was nervous but figured it couldn’t be too hard...I just ran a marathon after all...however, it was a 50 mile ride, with plenty of hills. In fact, we actually took a wrong turn, but don't worry, it just means we skipped the nice flat ride along the coast and cut across the hills through the middle of the island. I had a good time and parts of the ride I really enjoyed... parts of the ride I really hated and have to admit I pretty much lost it going up the last hill. We had already gone 48 miles, nearly 5 hours of riding and then there was this hill... calling it a hill is comparable to saying it’s hot here during the summer or the spiders are big...it just doesn’t begin to cover it. Tom checked the Garmin and it said we ascended something like 500 feet, more than twice the distance of the other big hills! You can see it on the map. That said, the real point is how amazing Tom is and the fact that he was just plugging along going up the hill with no problem! These guys were crazy and I could not keep up. They all kept saying “Oh you’re doing so great for your first ride.” I like to think that’s the truth but it will be much better when I can just keep up!
Later that night we had a few couples over for a BBQ and games. The girls and everyone else’s kids went to bed around 9. Hayden made it until 11:30 when he fell asleep on the couch while he was reading. I carried him outside at midnight to see the fireworks but he was too asleep to remember it. New Year’s Day we went to the park and had a great time on the slides and beautiful weather.

2009 was a fantastic year, we look forward to 2010!!!

2009 in Review

Can I really sum up all our adventures in one post? I guess I'll try. These are just a few highlights from our year, you can read the full accounts in the archive!

January: We took advantage of the great weather and spent so much time at the amazing parks here. The slides are huge, wild and dangerous, and so much fun! The equipment is so different to us, the kids love it! The island is small so the coast is everywhere which means a lot of the parks also have a beach, it makes for a great outing!

February: Tom and I spent Valentine’s day having a picnic on the beach. On February 16th Tom turned 31 and we had a surprise birthday party with a BBQ and Rockband with all our friends! We discovered the treasures at the “100 Yen Store.” It’s like a dollar store and the kids love all the great stuff they find there!
March: We picked up some new passions in our family: Family Rockband time- with Hayden singing and the girls on guitar or drums. Running- Tom and I began to really enjoy it and were training for a half marathon! Karaoke- I think Tom would go every weekend, he’s phenomenal and kept needing “just one more song!”

April: Everyone is growing up so fast! Hayden started playing soccer, Danica got her haircut, Alyssa got rid of the binky and I turned 30! My birthday was great and left me realizing how my life has only gotten better in the last 10 years!!! We had a great camping trip on the beach and fun at the Forest Adventure Park flying down ziplines. We traveled by ferry to a nearby island where Tom and I competed in our first ever half marathon. It was fantastic although we were puzzled by the bowl of hot noodles offered at the finish line- I wanted a cold drink!
May: Tom had an amazing opportunity to go to Cambodia with a Navy medical humanitarian team to do dental work. He loved the experience of helping the people there. We missed him for those three weeks but when you live on a military base you find that 3 weeks is nothing compared to the separation that so many families endure. I have gained a new appreciation and admiration for the sacrifices of our military families. We are truly blessed to have such amazing individuals and families willing to serve this country, and all of us.
June: We enjoyed a trip to Okuma, a beach resort where we stayed in a condo. Had fun at the huge aquarium on the island where the kids enjoy watching the sharks eat. School got out and we headed to the states! We spent some time getting over the jetlag and then spent a fantastic week on a houseboat at Lake Shasta with Tom’s family! We had 31 people on one boat and enjoyed it all!! The water skiing and wake-boarding were fantastic!
July: While in Washington with Tom’s family we enjoyed tons of shopping, eating out and game nights with the family. Hayden practically moved in with his cousins and the kids were on true vacation mode, even sleeping in until 9 or 10 some days! It was so much fun and made us long for the time when we will live there. In the middle of July Tom had to come back to Okinawa for work and the kids and I flew down to Utah to see my family for the first time in 14 months! We went to Antimony (southern Utah), I ran a 1/2 marathon and came in 10th place for my division, we went 4-wheeling and bottle shooting and just ran around! Back at my parents house we began a month long vacation of crazy fun everyday!
August: The list of things my parents took us out to do is too long to write again! It included Lagoon, Children’s Musuem, Park City Resort, East Canyon Resort, the fair, movies, the zoo, the temple open house and so much more! It was so fun to be with family and to see friends and have my mom’s cooking! The highlight was right before I had to come back I was able to attend my mom’s graduation from BYU!!! It was fantastic to watch her walk across that stage and know she worked hard and really earned that degree!

September: Hayden started first grade and Danica began at preschool and Alyssa potty trained. Tom got really into road biking, the huge spiders came out in full force, the humidity made me want to die, we got serious with our marathon training and got into longer runs including our 18 and 20 milers. We had more adventures out in town discovering fun recreation centers!

October: We explored the caves of Okinawa World, did a lot of running in the rain, and decorated for Halloween. Hayden is a reading machine, sometimes finishing chapter books in one day. Danica is showing some real skill with gymnastics and loves it! On the 31st Tom and I took a ferry ride to another island and ran our first full marathon! It was a gorgeous course, along the coast of the island! It was a long and grueling run, but we did it!

November: Hayden entered the science fair and won for first grade! Danica loves to work on her own homework while Hayden does his and is getting really good at her letters. Alyssa is talking more every day and is a dance-a-holic and can’t resist when she hears music! We spent a wonderful Thanksgiving with friends at some cottages on the beach!

December: It’s all a blur this month has been so busy.... we’ve had Danica’s birthday, our 9th anniversary, Hayden’s birthday, cookies for the class party, gifts to neighbors, Christmas cards, all the shopping, service projects, primary activities and so much more! Just like every year I keep saying that next year I am starting in August so I can actually enjoy the season!!

The year was full of adventure and fun and we are so grateful to be happy and healthy and have this wonderful world to explore. We are most grateful for our Savior and the gift of his birth and his life and death, for the opportunity he gives us to be together as a family forever. May you all have a Merry Christmas and may 2010 be a year full of fun and adventure for you all.

Love,
Tom, Tracey, Hayden, Danica and Alyssa Stinchfield

Happy Birthday Danica!

Danica turned 4 on December 12 and we had a fantastic day. It started with a birthday party with 9 little kids who were all well behaved and we had a great time! Danica picked The Little Mermaid as her theme and we made necklaces, painted underwater art, searched for dinglehoppers, and then ate fish shaped jello, chicken nuggets and crackers (and carrots and oranges). At the end we went fishing for prizes to fill the goodie bags, Danica says this was her favorite part.


She spent the afternoon playing with presents and talking to grandparents on the web cam and opening the gifts they sent. In the afternoon we went to our favorite park, appropriately named by us “the slide park.” It was nice going just as a family and spending that time together. It was a really fun day for everyone!



Just as a record I want to share a bit about Danica. Before she turned 3 she was incredibly, painfully shy. Then one day I found her hiding under the table because she was shy about grandma being on the webcam...that was the last straw. I had idea and just started telling her that she wasn’t shy anymore because now she was 3. It worked! Whenever she started acting shy I would just remind her and she would stop. She started talking to people, making eye contact and just having fun! It’s made for a fantastic year with a truly delightful girl. She is quick to smile and if she’s in trouble she’ll just sit there smiling at me in hopes of changing my mind. This works the other way around too, when she is grumpy about something I can just smile at her until she cracks and starts laughing with me. She is a great big sister and loves to play with Alyssa and is quick to help her with anything. She was invaluable when I was potty training Alyssa and thought it was so fun to help! I don’t know what I’d do without her! Alyssa copies everything she does and it’s great because Danica is such a good example!
Danica loves the color green and loves The Little Mermaid. She loves to sing and dance to the song “Celebrate.” She likes making up names for everything and everyone, she’ll ask me someone’s name and if I don’t know she’ll saying something like “I think it’s Inglebog.” Right now I always hear her saying things like “I’m totally serious, really!” Or I see her running around yelling “I’m losing my life!” She loves her gymnastics class and her preschool and always tell me “I had a great day mom!” When she is happy or excited she claps her hands together and scrunches up her shoulders trying to hold in the excitement, it’s really cute! It’s easy to make her happy, sometimes all I have to do is give her a clementine, she loves them!
Before she leaves to go play at our neighbors or goes into preschool or goes to bed she always insists on lots of hugs and kisses. If she walks away without them she'll come running back for a kiss and hug. She loves to play with babies, play hide ‘n seek, or jump on the trampoline. Danica is an amazing little girl and delight to have in our family!

Team Ball-Field!

Introducing, the newest biathlon team! We decided at the last minute (literally decided the night before the race while we were cleaning up the branch Christmas party) that we would compete in a biathlon on the Air Force Base. The team required 3 runners and one biker. I actually rode the bike, despite my lack of experience, due to lingering knee problems. I have been diagnosed with IT Band Syndrome and am on no-running torture for 4 weeks...it's killing me because running is when I clear my head and have time to think and be alone and this time of year is so crazy that I need my running time now more than ever. I've been going to a spin class but long for the chance to just wake up and run without having to think. But that's another story... this one is about the fun we had doing the race! Randy and Melanie Ball ran with us and were awesome! Melanie nursed her baby, sprinted to the starting line, ran a fast leg of the race and got back to take her baby again so I could get ready to race! It was serious mom power! It was fun and we hope to do it again!

Tropical Island Thankgiving

I’ve been feeling a bit down about missing out on all the family holiday gatherings that are coming but our Okinawa family really came through for us this past Thanksgiving weekend. It was fantastic!!! Back in August we all got together and reserved cottages at small resort on a base up north. We’ve been there a few times but never along with anyone else. It was the perfect set up- 7 families, Hayden was the oldest of the 20 kids. All the cottages in a small fenced in area on one little road surrounding a playground and within walking distance to the beach. The kids were everywhere, riding bikes, rollerblading, digging in the sand, swinging and just enjoying the lack of supervision while the adults relaxed and hung out!
We started Thanksgiving off right with a football game that was a blast (thank you to the pregnant moms who watched the kids so the rest of us could play!) Then we gathered for appetizers for lunch, got some food prepped, put the Turkey in the oven and headed to the beach! The waves were great and the sand plentiful! Then we cleaned up and met for dinner. We had enough food to feed us all for three meals, three fantastically delicious meals! I don’t make anything that requires more than three ingredients but my friends are fantastic cooks and I totally benefitted! My mashed potatoes and rainbow jello turned out fine and I did contribute a stellar apple pie and pumpkin pie. Yum!
After dinner the kids had a scavenger hunt, a p.j. movie party and it was off to bed so the adults could stay up way to late playing games. Every night we would put the kids to bed, lock the doors and meet for pie and games at one of the cottages while monitoring the kids with baby monitors, walkie talkies, and cordless phones...it was awesome. (There is a perk to being on an isolated little military base- totally safe!) By the time we left on Saturday I was exhausted but so happy, I just kept smiling on the drive home thinking about how thankful I am to be here with so many wonderful people. Who would have thought that this far from “home” I could have so many amazing friends. We truly have become like family, the kids play like cousins and adults just enjoy our time together and everyone has unique and special things they bring to the group. This Thanksgiving, while so far from the rest of my family and things that are familiar there is no question I was the most thankful for friends...and the blue water and perfect weather helped...on the drive home I noticed that instead of passing trees full of fall leaves changing colors I was passing trees full of bright orange flowers. There were hundreds of them and they were gorgeous...ah yes, it might be far from “home” but for now it is home.

On a related note, Hayden did a little Thanksgiving play in his class at school and he was one of the two narrators and did a fantastic job! He's on the far left, reading one of his parts.